教孩子学会反省

• 出 处: 家长
• 发表日期: 2015年03期
• 关键词: 孔子学说 曾子 自我反省 吾日三省吾身 智远 儒家思想 《大学》 对我说 人谋 天刚

曾子曰:“吾日三省吾身:为人谋而不忠乎?与朋友交而不信乎?传不习乎?”这句的意思是:我每天多次自我反省:为别人办事竭尽全力了吗?与朋友交往有不诚实的表现吗?老师教给我的知识复习了吗?曾子(名参)在孔子学生中并不是最聪明的一个,其智远不如颜回、子路等人。曾参虽拙了那么一点,其实并不是笨,只是人比较老实,不太说话,喜欢一个人安静下来反思。不过,后来嫡传孔子学说的反而是他。他著了《大学》,而著《中庸》的孔子的孙子子

Zeng Zi said: “My day three provinces Wu body: not seeking loyalty to the people? And friends do not trust? Pass it? ” The meaning of this sentence is: I repeatedly self-reflection day: doing everything possible for others Have friends with friends dishonest performance? Teacher taught me to review it? Zengzi (a reference) in Confucius students is not the most intelligent one, its wisdom is far better than Yan Hui, Zi Lu and others. Although it has been clumsy, in fact, is not stupid, but people are more honest, not too talkative, like a quiet person to reflect on. However, Confucius later spread Confucianism is him. He had a “university” and a grandson of Confucius, “Golden Mean.”