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孩子在外遭人欺负,哭哭啼啼甚至带着伤痕回到家,这种事情每个家长都可能碰到。此时家长该怎么办?我认为这是培养孩子冷静、理智、独立应对和处理突发事情能力的有利时机,家长要特别注意“四忌”: 一忌漠不关心。家长无论多忙,无论在干什么,都要放下手边的事情,听一听孩子的申诉,弄清原委。如果简单地认为小孩子间打打闹闹没什么大不了的,见怪不怪地将孩子冷落一旁,甚至臭骂一顿,这都是不可取的,既不利于帮孩子辨明是非,也容易导
Children are bullied outsiders, crying or even with a scar back home, such a thing every parent may encounter. At this point what should parents do? I think this is to cultivate children calm, rational, independent response and ability to deal with unexpected opportunities, parents should pay special attention to “four bogey”: avoid indifference. No matter how busy the parents, no matter what they do, they must put aside the matter at hand, listen to their children’s complaints and clarify the whole story. If you simply think that children playing noisy is no big deal, weird to put children aside, or even swear meal, it is not desirable, is not conducive to helping children distinguish between right and wrong, but also easy to guide