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近些年来,在都市之中,出现了这样一族男女,他们显然已到了婚姻年龄,却依旧孑然一身,独来独往,形似“独身主义者”。其实并非如此,他们的档案袋中,早已填上了“已婚”二字。他们有夫有妇,甚至拥有一个比别人更为幸福的家庭。不同的是,这些夫妻实行一地分居。他们居住在同一个城市,时间和空间都为他们提供了朝朝暮暮相厮守的良好条件。但他们并不每天生活在一起。只是到了周末或某一个约定时间,才“集合”起来。夫妻在一起生活一天或一段时间,然后再“解散”。这种现象被人们称之为“家庭内分居”。由于家庭内分居与传统的观念格格不入,所以不为社会所理解,不过分居家庭都有自己的理由和原因,这正如一首歌中所唱的:“其实你不懂我的心”。
In recent years, among the cities, such a group of men and women have appeared. They have apparently reached the age of marriage but are still solitary and independent. They are similar to “celibates.” In fact, not the case, their portfolio, already filled in the “married” word. They have husband and wife, and even have a happier family than others. The difference is that these couples practice a separation. They live in the same city, both in time and in space, providing them with the best of times and nights. But they do not live together everyday. Only by the weekends or an appointment time, before “gathering” together. Couples live together for a day or for a while, then “disband.” This phenomenon is called “home separation.” Since separation within families is incompatible with the traditional concept, it is not understood by society. However, separated families have their own reasons and reasons, as sing in a song: “Actually, you do not understand my heart.”