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几年前,当我还是一个真正的文艺女青年的时候,遇上了一个男人,我们从不说爱,更不谈情,但一有空,我们就K歌,书吧看书,逛公园,看电影,见彼此的朋友和亲人,我从心里把他当成了我的爱人。那一年的情人节,我从早憋到晚七点,一直没等到他邀请我共度情人节的消息。终于忍不住,打电话过去,他说他在阳光酒店喝咖啡(深圳一家五星级酒店),我问他几个人,他说一个人,我不信,他说你有空就过来。我迅速打的过去,果然看到他西装革履,面前一杯咖啡,轻坐在软椅上,手指合着音乐打着拍子。那一瞬,我感到羞愧,终于明白他的内心强大到什么地步了,一个不再为形式所束缚的男人,他日必成大器。我问他为什么能做到这样,他说了一句话:旅行,看书,看碟,是内心强大的捷径。后来,他离开深圳去外国当访问学者了,我感到茫然,失落,寂寞,还有孤独,可是一想起那个到处充满玫瑰花香的夜晚,那个热闹非凡的日子,他一个人优雅地坐在酒店一角静静喝咖啡的样子,我就充满了感激和冷静。生活需要下沉的力量,尽管我还不能做到真正的中正平和,智慧豁达,但我正在跟着书和碟还有旅行向它走近,正如一位朋友说的,既然已经成了秃头,那就只好装一下聪明人了。装聪明人的我,今天想换一种说法,把我喜欢看的书介绍给大家,再从书中找出经典的影片来回顾一下。
A few years ago, when I was a real literary young woman, I met a man. We never talked about love or even talkativeness. But when we were free, we went to K songs, read books and bookstores, walked through parks, Watching movies, meeting each other’s friends and relatives, I regarded him as my lover in my heart. Valentine’s Day that year, I hold back until seven o’clock late, has not waited until he invited me to spend the Valentine’s Day news. Finally could not help but call in the past, he said he was in the Sunshine Hotel to drink coffee (Shenzhen, a five-star hotel), I asked him a few people, he said one person, I do not believe he said you have time to come. I quickly hit the past, and sure enough to see his suit, in front of a cup of coffee, sitting in a soft chair, finger co-ed with music beat. At that moment, I was so ashamed that I finally realized how powerful his heart was, that a man no longer bound by the form would become a magnifier in his day. I asked him why he could do that. He said one sentence: Traveling, reading books and watching DVDs are shortcuts inside. Later, when he left Shenzhen to visit a foreign country as a visiting scholar, I felt dazed, lost, lonely, and lonely. However, on the evening full of rose fragrance, he was sitting in the elegant corner of the hotel alone I was full of gratitude and calmness as I was drinking coffee. Life needs the power of sinking. Although I can not yet achieve true peace, wisdom and open-mindedness, I am approaching it with books and saucer and travel. As one friend said, since it has become bald, I had to dress smart people. Wise men, I want to change my mind today, I like to read the book introduced to everyone, and then find the classic movie from the book to review.