七中言行影响孩子未来

• 机 构: 汉中日报编辑部,
• 出 处: 幸福家庭
• 发表日期: 2015年01期
• 关键词: 自我检查 大后 人际交往 别人家 汉中日报 亲子关系 幽默诙谐 一笑了之 有容乃大 宝子

孩子未来发展的差异,与家长的一言一行密不可分。以下7种言行,就很可能影响孩子的未来,父母们不妨对照着自我检查一下。总问“爸爸亲还是妈妈亲”父母或出于“竞争”心理,或仅仅觉得好奇而提出这样的问题,对孩子来说却是艰难的选择。面对这种问题,有的孩子会在内心深处产生巨大矛盾和斗争;有的孩子可能会见爸爸说爸爸亲、见妈妈说妈妈亲,学会耍滑头,长大后说话也言不由衷;还有的孩子会慢慢变得傲慢自负,产生自我为中心的思想,导致在人际交往中不能找准自己的位

Differences in the future development of children are inseparable from the parents’ words and deeds. The following seven kinds of words and deeds, it is likely to affect the child’s future, parents may wish to control the self check. It is a tough choice for children to ask such questions as “father or mother” or “out of” “competition” mentality or merely being curious. In the face of this problem, some children will have great contradictions and struggles in their hearts. Some children may meet their father and father and mother, see their mother and mother, learn to slip head, and grow up to speak unreasonably; and Children slowly become arrogant and self-centered, resulting in self-centered thinking that leads to failure to pinpoint one’s bit in interpersonal relationships