你的冷淡他的错?

• 作 者: 梁培定
• 出 处: 生活与健康
• 发表日期: 2008年12期
• 关键词: 性冷淡 传统教育 医疗界 夫妻生活 性刺激 性侵犯 感情破裂 性伴侣 性唤起 性能力

随着工作的推移,我渐渐发现了一个带有“中国特色”的现象:也许是受传统教育影响太深,也许是性知识太缺乏,也许是中国的女性对男性太宽容……当夫妻性生活不和谐时,女方往往首先考虑,是不是自己有问题呀?是不是自己“性冷淡”才造成夫妻生活不和谐呢?因此,很多性生活不和谐的女性问的第一个问题往往是:“有没有什么药物,让我吃后可以达到性高潮?”遗憾的是没有这种药物,迄今为止,没有任何一种女性“春药”是真正得到医疗界广泛认同的。

As my work progressed, I gradually found a phenomenon with “Chinese characteristics ”: Maybe it is affected by traditional education too much, perhaps there is too little sexual knowledge, maybe Chinese women are too tolerant of men ... When the couple sex life is not harmonious, the woman often first consider whether it is their own problem? Is it right? “Frigidity ” is the result of discord between married couples? Therefore, many women with disharmony sex ask the first The questions are often: “Is there any medicine that will allow me to reach orgasm after eating?” “Unfortunately, there is no such medicine so far, and there is not any kind of female” aphrodisiac "which is truly recognized by the medical profession of.