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据报道,早在2009年11月,天津市统计局就“家庭育儿方式”做过一项调查,所有受访者有近七成的“80后”妈妈表示她们不会望子成龙给孩子过多的压力,只要孩子健康快乐就好。中日友好医院心理医生李子勋提出,在教育孩子的问题上,年轻一代对孩子的独立性看得较重,比较尊重他们的自由发展;而年老一代对于孩子的未来期许相对来说就更为贪婪,更希望孩子将来出人头地,把自己未完成的心愿托付到孩子这一辈人身上,更愿意让孩子按自己设定的方向而不是他们自然的发展路线成长。本文中制造家庭悲剧的男主人公罗伟达,因为儿时被遗弃的遭遇让他把儿子的成长和前途看得更加重要。在他工作受挫之后,他将自己的目标放在送儿子出国上。与其说他是在编织儿子的出国梦,不如说他在圆自己的人生梦。最终,一家三口命丧黄泉。
It is reported that as early as in November 2009, Tianjin Municipal Bureau of Statistics conducted a survey on the “mode of family parental rearing” and nearly 70% of all interviewees said that they would not succumb Children too much pressure, as long as the child is healthy and happy like. Li Zixun, a psychiatrist at China-Japan Friendship Hospital, suggested that the younger generation should pay more attention to their children’s independence and respect their free development on the issue of educating their children. However, the older generation may be more likely to face the future of their children More greedy, but also hope that children succeed in the future, their unfinished aspirations entrusted to their children who are more willing to let their children set their own direction rather than their natural development route. The author of this article, Luo Weida, the male protagonist who created the family tragedy, has made his son’s growth and future even more important because of his childhood abandonment. After his work frustrated, he set his goal on sending his son abroad. Not so much that he is in the weaving son’s dream abroad, as it is said that he dreams of their own life. In the end, a family of three lost their lives.