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婚姻问题是中国人讨论最多的话题之一。人们都渴望婚姻生活幸福而美满,成家与立业成为人生中极为重要的西件事。而现实中,越来越多的家庭无法用幸福不幸福来衡量,而是一种介于两者之间的“灰色地带”——亚婚姻状态。用灰色地带来形容这种状态真的很贴切,就像QQ 上灰色离线的小人儿,可能是离线,也可能是隐身,是放弃的灰色和等待的灰色在内心的矛盾。其实大可不必区分那么多类型,进入灰色状态的人们内心是混沌的,幸福与不幸是一个无法作答的选择,在混沌的状态下可能更多的选择是放弃选择,任凭灰色继续下去。或许这可以算是一种非常理智的选择,毕竟不是每个人都有抛弃过去的决心和改变生活的勇气。
Marriage is one of the most discussed topics in China. People are longing for a happy and prosperous marital life, becoming a very important western part in their lives. In reality, more and more families can not be measured by happiness and unhappiness, but rather as a “gray zone” between the two - the state of sub-marriage. Gray to describe this state is really appropriate, just like QQ on the gray off-line children, may be offline, it may be stealth, is to give up the gray and wait gray contradictions in the heart. In fact, there is no need to distinguish between so many types of people into the gray state of mind is chaotic, happiness and misfortune is an unanswered choice in the chaos of the state may be more choice is to give up the option, despite the gray to continue. Perhaps this can be considered a very sensible choice, after all, not everyone has the determination to abandon the past and the courage to change life.