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就本性而言,人是一种追求完美的高级动物。人在追求爱情的时候尤其能体现这种本性,本人我就是其中一位。 虽然现实生活中的爱情和婚姻难以两全其美(有时甚至“一全”也难),但我还是要一往情深地去追求。社会上很流行“找一个爱我的人做老婆,找一个我爱的人做情人”,这除了个人观念的因素外,也一定程度上反映了现实生活中的不尽人意,以致只好把“老婆”和“情人”割裂开来,实际上,这是一种对完美爱情婚姻的无奈追求,即可以理解,又不宜提倡,更不得效仿。
In essence, man is a kind of advanced animal pursuing perfection. People in the pursuit of love, especially when it can reflect this nature, I am one of them. Although in real life love and marriage are hard to get the best of both worlds (and sometimes even “one size fits all”), I still have to go all out to pursue it. It is very popular in society to “find a man who loves me as a wife and a lover I love to be a lover.” Apart from personal factors, it also reflects the unsatisfactory life in real life, Wife “and” lover "apart, in fact, this is a kind of helpless pursuit of the perfect love and marriage, that is understandable, it is not appropriate to advocate, not to emulate.