医生嘴里的好消息和坏消息

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顾晋是北京大学肿瘤医院结直肠肿瘤外科主任。这位声名远扬的外科大夫,从2000年起,却一直在研究一门不那么专业的学问——如何将坏消息传递给病人。情商比智商更重要那天上午,顾晋穿着白大褂走进诊室。刚进来,就有不少病人围上来。有希望加号的,有希望给自己先看的。他一一安慰大家,并让助手给一些急切的病人加号。顿时,诊室安静下来。顾晋坐定,开始接诊。一个从外地来的病人,盯着顾晋的一举一动。顾晋仔细看完病人的化验单,拍拍病人的肩说:“你肠子上长了个东西,我给你拿掉就行。”病人怔了一下,随后似乎略微放松下来,点点头说:“全听您的。”这是顾晋告诉病人坏消息的一种方式。他尽量避免使用诸如“癌”“肿瘤”“转移”等刺激性的字词,而是用“东西”“跑”等病人容易接受的字词替代。“做医生,有时情商比智商更重要。”顾晋说。刚入行时,他并不太在意与病人的交流。1999年,他到美国哥伦比亚大学内外科学院做访问学者,目睹了美国同行如何与患者沟通。美国的做法是直接告知病人实情,这是法律规定。“不过,告知实情不意味着不讲方式方法。”顾晋说,美国医生非常重视与病人的沟通技巧,一些医学院还专门开设“如何告诉病人坏消息”的课程。 Gu Jin, director of colorectal cancer surgery at Peking University Cancer Hospital. The well-known surgeon, who has been working since 2000, has studied less-than-specialized learning-how to pass on bad news to patients. EQ is more important than IQ That morning, Gu Jin wearing a white coat into the clinic. Just come in, there are many patients around. Promising plus, there is hope for their own look. He comforted everybody one by one, and asked his assistant to add some urgency to the patient. Suddenly, the clinic was quiet. Gu Jin sitting, began admissions. A patient from the field, staring at Gu Jin’s every move. Gu Jin carefully read the patient’s test sheet and patted the patient’s shoulder and said: “You have something on your intestine and I’ll take it off.” The patient started to feel a little relieved and then nodded slightly : “Listen to you all.” This is one way Gu Jin told patients about the bad news. Instead of using irritating words such as cancer, cancer, metastasis, etc., he tries to replace words that are acceptable to patients such as “something ” “run ”. “To be a doctor, emotional intelligence is sometimes more important than emotional intelligence.” Gu Jin said. When he first joined the bank, he did not care too much about communicating with the patient. In 1999, he was a visiting scholar at the School of Surgeons at Columbia University in the United States and witnessed how his American counterparts communicated with patients. The United States practice is to inform patients directly, which is the law. “However, to tell the truth does not mean that we do not want to talk about ways and means.” Gu Jin said that American doctors attach great importance to communication skills with patients. Some medical schools also specialize in “How to Tell Patients Bad News.”
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