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看过这样一则寓言:有一只小猴子,肚皮被树枝划伤了,它见到一个猴子朋友就扒开伤口说:你看我的伤口,好痛。每个看见它伤口的猴子都安慰它,同情它,告诉它不同的治疗方法。它就继续走啊,继续给朋友们看伤口,继续听取意见,后来它感染死掉了。一个老猴子说:它是自己把自己害死的。是啊,如果它一开始就包好自己的伤,不给别人看伤口,伤口就会慢慢愈合。人世间,不如意十之八九,每个人都
Read such a parable: There is a little monkey, the belly was scratched branches, it saw a monkey friend to open the wound and said: You look at my wounds, hurts. Every monkey that sees its wound comforts it, sympathizes with it, and tells it about different treatments. It continues to walk, continue to see friends wounds, continue to listen to opinions, then it died of infection. An old monkey said: It is killing himself. Yes, if it wraps its wounds from the start, it will not heal the wounds and the wounds will heal slowly. In the world, unhappy, every one of them