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江苏苏州一家长来电咨询:以前我发现孩子考砸了或者不听话,常常气得打骂他,但效果不理想。后来听了专家的建议,我就对孩子多加鼓励,他考了60分,我虽然很生气,但还是对他说:“真不错,再努力点就能更好了。”但孩子油盐不进,仍旧一点起色没有,照样学习不努力、淘气。都说好孩子是夸出来的,我怎么就夸不出来呢?答:赏识作为一种教育手段,本身并没有错,但赏识不是孤立的,“赏”跟“识”是连在一起
A counselor in Suzhou, Jiangsu: In the past, I found the child test smashed or disobedient, often angrily beat him, but the effect is not satisfactory. Later, after listening to the suggestions of experts, I encouraged my children more and more. Although he was angry at 60 points, he said to him: “Really good. Salt does not enter, still a little improvement, still learning hard, naughty. Say good boy is boast, how can I boast? A: Appreciation as an educational tool, there is nothing wrong, but appreciation is not isolated, ”reward " with Together