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加藤嘉一说,在欧美和日本,一个年轻的小伙子开着漂亮的豪车去上学是件很可疑的事情——他很可能是富人之后,并且是一个严重依赖父母的富人之后。这样的男孩子交不到女朋友,因为他没有证明自己独立生存的能力,嫁给他,是件有风险的事。在日本,婚礼上男孩子不会问:“你愿意跟我幸福一辈子吗?”因为这是不合逻辑的,你还很年轻,你的未来还很长,你凭什么认为你会是“幸福一辈子”的?但是你不幸福不代表我就不嫁给你——婚礼上男孩子一般会问:“你愿意跟我辛苦一辈子吗?”这就对了,我愿意跟你辛苦一辈子,你是努力的,你是上进的,你是坚强的,那么总会
Kato said that in Europe, the United States and Japan, a young man driving a beautiful luxury car to go to school is a very suspicious thing - he is likely to be rich, and is a reliance on their parents after the rich. It is a risky affair for a boy to miss his girlfriend because he has not demonstrated his ability to survive independently and marry him. In Japan, boys will not ask at wedding: “Do you want to be happy with me for a lifetime? ” Because it is illogical, you are still young, your future is still long, and what do you think you would be “Happy life” but you are not happy does not mean I will not marry you - the wedding boy will usually ask: “you are willing to work hard with me forever? ” This is right, I would like to tell you Hard life, you are hard, you are motivated, you are strong, then the general