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苦与乐,美与丑,甚至善与恶,有时往往只是一种感觉,或者说是一种心境.当我们从不同角度、以不同标准看待事物和问题时,便会有不同的结论.我们不妨先看两则故事.春秋时有个叫弥子瑕的,是卫国的嬖臣,很受宠爱.有一次陪卫灵公在果园游玩时,他吃到一个非常甜的桃子,吃了一半,想起了卫君,便把吃剩的桃子献给了卫灵公.卫灵公很高兴,赞扬他:“忘了自己吃过一半,还记着给我,真是爱我的好臣子啊!”但后来弥子瑕失宠,卫灵公便认为这是辱君的表现,把他治了罪.这就是“余桃啖君”的故事.还有一则是大家都熟悉的“邻子窃斧”.有个人丢失了斧头,疑心是邻人的儿子偷去了,察看那人的一举一动,无不象偷斧子的样子.不久他在自家的谷堆里找到了斧子,再看邻人之子,其动作、态度就一点也不象偷斧子的人了.
Bitterness and pleasure, beauty and ugliness, and even good and evil, are often just feelings or feelings, and when we look at things and problems from different angles and with different standards, we can all have different conclusions. May wish to look at the two stories.At the age of spring and autumn called a sub-flaw, is the defending country minister, very popular.Once accompanied by Wei Ling play in the orchard, he ate a very sweet peach, eat Half, remembered Wei Jun, put the leftover peach dedicated to the Wei Ling Gong Wei Ling pleased, praised him: “forgotten half eaten, still remember to me, really love my good courtier ah ! ”But later, Yat-kun flaws, Chong-wei think it is the performance of humiliation, he ruled the crime .This is the story of“ Yu Tao Jun Jun. ”Another is we are all familiar with the" nephew A man who had lost his ax and was suspicious of a neighbor’s son had stolen and looked at every move of the man was like a stealing ax, and soon he found an ax in his own heap, Its action, attitude is not like a steal ax people.