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目前,我国的家庭模式及亲子交往的方式,已由原来的一对父母照料几个孩子的关爱不足型,演变为多人照料一个孩子的过分关爱型。在这里,我想对如何正确把握爱的角度谈一下自己的看法。去包办代替变让其自立许多父母、祖辈有这样一种想法:“孩子是他们生命的延续,是他们生命的一部分。”因此,对孩子关爱有加,孩子要什么给什么。还有一种心态是:“孩子还小,长大了自然什么都会了。”就拿吃饭来说,孩子小时候,不都是喂的吗?长大了不喂不是也会自己吃了。现在的社会,竞争越来越激烈,孩子将来肯定有苦头吃,我们现在可以给他的,还是让他多享受一点。于是,吃饭、穿衣、刷牙、洗脸等等,样样包办代替,致使孩子养成了衣来伸
At present, the family model and the way of parent-child interaction in our country have evolved from the carelessness of several parents taking care of a few children to the over-care of many children taking care of a child. Here, I want to talk about my own views on how to correctly grasp the love. To wrap up instead of giving up their freedom Many parents, grandparents have the idea that “children are a continuation of their lives and part of their lives.” Therefore, care for children increases, and children give what to give. There is also a state of mind is: “The child is still young, grew up naturally, what would have been.” Take a meal, the children as a child, are not fed? Grow up not feed will not eat their own. In today’s society, the competition is fiercer and fiercer. Children certainly have to suffer in the future. We can give him now or let him enjoy more. So, eat, dress, brush your teeth, wash your face and so on, everything arranged instead, resulting in children to develop clothing to stretch