解开独生子女的自我中心之结

• 作 者: 吴晓芬
• 出 处: 上海教育
• 发表日期: 2005年23期
• 关键词: 自我中心 青少年学生 转变期 人际交往障碍 人格发展 相信自己 中学时期 心态平和 聪明绝顶 善与人交

关于独生子女问题的报道和文章已屡见不鲜,家长和教师也常把孩子行为、个性上的偏差归咎于独生子女制度。独生子女普遍表现出的以自我为中心的心理导致了青少年学生中诸多矛盾的产生。对于正处于人生重要转变期的青少年学生,他们迫切需要教师和家长的关注和正确引导,以帮助他们走出自我中心的怪圈。

Reports and articles on one-child problems have not been uncommon. Parents and teachers often blame child behavior and individual deviations on the one-child system. The self-centered mentality that singletons commonly show has led to the emergence of many contradictions among young students. For young students who are in an important transitional period of life, they urgently need the attention and correct guidance of teachers and parents to help them out of the vicious circle of self-centeredness.