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几年前,某单位一位30多岁的干部,跟一个比他还大几岁的女售货员发生婚外性关系,被他妻子发现,告到上级部门闹得满城风雨后,他停止了与女售货员的关系。最近,他妻子突然又闹起来,一口咬定他又有婚外恋,但又拿不出任何证据,就胡乱确定他是单位里的女同事。并且他的妻子终日疑心重重,茶饭不香。出现较重的心理抑郁症……。原来,这位妻子相当漂亮,又比丈夫小5岁,由于她从小受的尽是正统的教育,婚后对性生活相当冷淡,还给丈夫订下不少清规戒律。如:不许看她脱衣服或洗澡;不许开灯或掀开被子;不许采用其他性交姿势等等。她也从来不抚摸丈夫的身体,丈夫认为这是妻子羞性或撒娇,因此也没有用科学知识的角度和情感沟通方法去
A few years ago, a 30-year-old cadre of a unit had an extramarital sex with a saleswoman older than him. After being found by his wife, he was stopped by the wife of a higher authorities department Salesman’s relationship. Recently, his wife suddenly woke up, insisted that he had extramarital affair, but could not get any evidence, he was identified as a random female colleagues in the unit. And his wife all day long doubts, tea is not fragrant. Appear heavier psychological depression ... .... It turned out that the wife is quite beautiful, and 5 years younger than her husband, because she was subjected to all the orthodox education, married sex life is quite cool, but also to her husband set a lot of rules and regulations. Such as: not allowed to see her undress or bathing; not allowed to turn on the lights or quilt; not allowed to use other intercourse posture and so on. She also never touched her husband’s body, her husband thought it was a shame or spoiled wife, so there is no way to use scientific knowledge and emotional communication methods