“红脸”与“白脸”——父母扮不同脸谱弊端多

• 作 者: 后乐
• 出 处: 人人健康
• 发表日期: 1995年04期
• 关键词: 教育方法 算端 亲在 常父 两面人 用理 于平 气幕 子间

有些家庭在教育孩子的问题上有一个颇为有趣的现象:父亲和母亲在孩子面前常扮出两种截然不同的“脸谱”,一个唱“红脸”,另一个喝“白脸”。通常都是唱“红脸”的负责管教、处罚,让孩子惧怕;唱“白脸”的负贵说情、调节,使孩子感到温暖、可亲。家庭中父母扮演不同角色,有的是有意识的,有的是无意识的。不管有意还是无

Some families have a quite interesting phenomenon on the issue of educating their children: fathers and mothers often have two very different “facets” in front of their children, one singing “red face” and the other drinking “white face.” Usually singing “red face” is responsible for disciplining, punishment, let the children fear; sing “white face” negative your feelings, adjust, make the child feel warm, amiable. Parents play different roles in the family, some are conscious, others are unconscious. Whether intentional or not