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当孩子渐渐长大,有了自己的思想后,常常会对父母的话充耳不闻,结果双方总是以“大呼小叫,暴风骤雨,两败俱伤”而告终。后来,在幼儿园老师的推荐下,我阅读了一些育儿书籍,对孩子的了解也更多了,这才渐渐意识到,其实,他们并不是故意想惹父母生气,只是不能和父母有一样的紧迫感而已。他们在按照小孩子自己的时间表生活,而父母则是按照成年人的时间表生活和做事。难怪经常会出现“你越责备,孩子对你的话越不理
When a child grows up and has his own thoughts, he often turns a deaf ear to the words of his parents. As a result, both parties will end with ”shout, storm and lose-lose.“ Later, on the recommendation of the kindergarten teacher, I read some parenting books and learned more about the children. I realized that actually they did not mean to provoke their parents to be angry but not to be as urgent as their parents Sense They are living according to the child’s own schedule, while the parents are living and working according to the adult schedule. No wonder often there will be ”The more you blame, the more children ignore your words