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现在的年轻父母生完孩子后大都把孩子交给老人带,老年人也乐于抚育宝贝孙子(女),但是,有些老年人因为过于疼爱孩子,一味地溺爱,一切都包办代替。有的孩子脾气很大,稍不如意就大哭大闹;生活自理能力比较差,养成许多坏习惯,到了学校,就不能适应老师的要求;更重要的是,有些老年人不了解孩子在身心发育过程中应有的训练,使孩子错过了一些心理发展的关键期。所以,老年人带孩子要讲究心理学。 心理学家研究发现,婴幼儿的心理发展分为大运动、精细动作、适应能
Nowadays, most young parents give birth to their children and give them to the elderly. Elderly people tend to nurture their baby grandchildren. However, some elderly people replace themselves because they love children too much and blindly spoil themselves. Some children have a great temper, crying and feeling a little unhappy; poor self-care ability, to develop many bad habits, to the school, can not meet the teacher’s request; more importantly, some older people do not understand the child in body and mind The proper training in the process of development makes the children miss some critical periods of psychological development. Therefore, the elderly with children should pay attention to psychology. Psychologists found that the psychological development of infants and young children are divided into large-scale exercise, fine movement, adaptation can