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幸福婚姻的“五大共识”:1、爱情是把两个人系在一起,婚姻是把一群人系在一起。2、结婚意味着在金钱的支配上不能搞平均主义,更不能斤斤计较。3、夫妻之间一旦发生矛盾,出面劝说的人越多,矛盾越是不容易解决,必须学会自我消化。4、婚姻是一部机器,故障在所难免,离不开日常的调试和维护。5、家庭既然是“难言之隐”的避难所,婚姻就应该具有“包纳”的能力。(摘自美国婚姻问题专家温格·朱利《幸福婚姻的法则》)
Happy marriage “Five Consensus ”: 1, love is to tie two people together, marriage is a group of people tied together. 2, marriage means that the money can not be dominated by egalitarianism, but also not preoccupied. 3, once a conflict between husband and wife, come forward to persuade the more people, the contradiction is not easy to solve, we must learn to digest. 4, marriage is a machine, failure is inevitable, can not be separated from the daily commissioning and maintenance. 5, since the family is “Shelter ” shelter, marriage should have “Baner ” ability. (From the American Marriage Specialist Wenger Julie “Law of Happy Marriage”)