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我做心理咨询的时候,最怕遇到“乐天派”的客户。他们貌似什么都明白。不用我开口,坐下就能揭批自己的问题,滔滔不绝,头头是道。表情还笑眯眯的,仿佛对自己的问题既看得透,也放得下。焦虑和痛苦只是停留在口头上,实际的心态是云淡风轻、大而化之的。跟这种人相处,当然很放松。但是对于他们的问题,一丝着力的点都没有,只能是束手无策。我印象最深刻的,是一位反复
When I do psychological counseling, the most afraid to encounter “optimist ” customers. They seemingly understand everything. Do not open my mouth, sit down and can expose their own problems, endless, the first word is Tao. Expression is also smiling, as if on their own problems both see through, but also let go. Anxiety and pain just stay verbally, the actual state of mind is clear-cut, large and. Of course it is relaxing to get along with such people. However, for their problems, there is no single point at all, but nothing can be done. I am most impressed, is a repetition