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心理专家认为,孩子喜欢告状实际上是儿童、青少年社会化不足的表现。这些孩子的特点是:一、不管别人做了什么事,不管是对他不利的还是与他毫无关系的,只要他看不惯,认为违反了社会规范,就不能理解,更不能包容,频繁地指责,习惯性地告状,直到他看不见这种事再发生。爱打小报告的孩子往往很少有同龄朋友。二、看不到好处就不主动帮助别人,非常讲究眼前的实惠,绝不吃亏。他们比较自私,缺乏同情心和奉献精神。
Psychological experts believe that children like to complain about the fact that children, adolescents socialized performance. The characteristics of these children are: First, no matter what others do, whether it is against him or unrelated to him, as long as he can not understand, that violations of social norms, we can not understand, but also not tolerate, frequent Accused, customarily sued, until he can not see it happening again. Children who love to make small reports often have very little friends of their age. Second, do not see the benefits do not take the initiative to help others, very attention to immediate benefits, never lose. They are selfish, lacking compassion and dedication.