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编辑同志: 我们的刚上初中的儿子正处于青春发育期,他的独立意向和成人感,使他总想摆脱我们的管束,可他还很幼稚,不成熟,容易发生各种问题。请问,我们该怎样对儿子进行引导和教育呢? 北京韩生韩生同志: 以下几种教育方面,您不妨一试。一、扶持独立性,在尊重的前提下加以引导。独立性是孩子成长的表现,父母应为此而感到高兴。家长和教师应当爱护孩子的独立性和自尊心,凡是他们能独立完成的活动与工作,应放手让他们去做,在进行的过程中适当给以指点。要多注意正面引导和鼓励,
Editor’s Comrade: Our son, who just started junior high school, is in his early stages of development. His sense of independence and adult make him always want to get out of our control. However, he is still naive, immature and prone to various problems. Excuse me, how can we guide and educate our son? Comrade Han Sheng of Beijing: We will give you some ideas on the following aspects of education. First, to support independence and guide under the premise of respect. Independence is a manifestation of children’s growth and parents should feel happy about it. Parents and teachers should take care of the independence and self-esteem of their children. All activities and work that they can accomplish independently should be let go and do their proper work. Pay more attention to positive guidance and encouragement,