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Q一次偶然的机会,我发现三岁多的儿子居然说谎,我很担心,是否会对他的日后成长不利?A首先要了解3岁孩子为什么会说谎,然后决定该怎么教育较为妥当。3岁孩子说谎的原因,可能是孩子想保持自己是好孩子的印象,做错了事不愿承认,用谎话掩盖过去,同时,也害怕遭到父母责骂。另外一种情况是孩子尚不能区别现实与想象,看到别的小孩子有玩具,很羡慕,会想象自己也有,而说“我家也有新玩具。这是孩子想象而非事实,因而说了谎,其实他不是有意想说谎,所以这个年龄的孩子说谎是无意的,没有必要多加注意或惩罚。只要让孩子生活在诚实的环境中,当孩子长到一定年龄时,就会结束这种于意的说谎。可采用以下方法:1不给孩子说谎的机会;如果父母明明知道孩子做错了事,就不要这样问:“这事是不是你做的?”因为
Q By chance, I noticed that a three-year-old son actually lied. I was worried that it would be unfavorable to his future growth. First of all, I will understand why a 3-year-old child will lie and then decide on what to do with education. The reason a 3-year-old kid lies may be that the child wants to keep the impression that he is a good boy, that he is unwilling to admit that he has done something wrong, that he has used lies to cover up the past, and that he fears being scolded by his parents. Another situation is that children still can not distinguish between reality and imagination, see other children have toys, envy, will imagine that they have, and said, “My family also has new toys. This is the child imagination rather than facts, and thus lying , In fact, he did not intend to lie, so children of this age are lying inadvertently, there is no need to pay more attention or punishment as long as the child live in an honest environment, when the child grows to a certain age, it will end this The following methods can be used: 1 Do not give the child a chance to lie; if the parents know that the child is doing something wrong, do not ask: ”This is not what you do?" Because