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问:我有一个5岁的女儿。她最近简直让人受不了,一点也不尊重我,老与我拗着劲儿:我说去散步,她喊着想在家里玩;我说不要乱扔东西,她就拿玩具朝我扔来,或者朝家里的吊灯扔去……好像故意跟我对着干。这是怎么回事?我该怎么办呢? 答:小孩捣乱不看具体环境,而是随心所欲,这确实令人不愉快。但是你女儿寻衅性的动作是由于你的行为引起的。你没有了解女儿的兴趣爱好,没有了解她的需要和愿望。她的举止因为不符合你的期望而受到你的斥责。她开始认为自己不好,于是,反过来向你宣战。还有可能
Q: I have a 5 year old daughter. She just could not stand it recently, she did not respect me at all, the old and me were stubborn: I said going for a walk, she cried and wanted to play at home; I said not to throw something, and she tossed the toy toward me, Or thrown to the chandelier at home ... seems to be doing something with me. What is going on? What should I do? A: It is really unpleasant for children to make trouble without regard to the specific circumstances, but at will. But your daughter’s provocative behavior is caused by your behavior. You do not understand her daughter’s hobbies, did not understand her needs and wishes. Her demeanor has been denounced because she did not meet your expectations. She began to think he was not good, so, in turn, declared war on you. Still possible