“原生”教育不可小觑

• 作 者: 谭启亮 高雪
• 出 处: 好家长
• 发表日期: 2012年05期
• 关键词: 生活情调 人格成长 浩明 生理需要 初生牛犊 伙伴们 不求上进 拳脚相加 主要学科 性能力

人们常说,“父母是孩子的第一任老师”。孩子们最需要父母的指引、帮助和鼓励,给他们以成长的信心和力量。很多时候,因为各种原因,一些家长只注重管、训,而忽略了言传身教,忽略了夫妻之间的矛盾成了打击、否定、训斥和不良教育的榜样。在家庭这种“原生”环境下,家长让孩子陷入消极、懒惰等不健康的生活情调和氛围中,却不知道孩子的“精神污染源”就在自己身上。

People often say, “Parents are children’s first teachers.” Children most need the guidance of parents, help and encouragement, giving them confidence and strength to grow. Very often, for various reasons, some parents only focus on management and training while neglecting precepts and practices and neglecting the contradictions between husband and wife have become examples for combating, negating, reprimanding and poor education. In this “home ” environment, parents can not let their children be immersed in unhealthy lifestyles and atmosphere such as being passive or lazy, but they do not know that the child’s “source of spiritual pollution” is on them.