走进“神童”之家

• 作 者: 朱鹏元
• 出 处: 好家长
• 发表日期: 2001年01期
• 关键词: 望女成凤 攀比心理 家庭教育 社会竞争 刘冬阳 自我保护能力 袁晓园 品德教育 呀呀学语 李娜

记得一位著名教育家曾说:世代中国家长把孩子当作自己的私有财产,当成用来光宗耀祖的一种工具。这话很有针对性。当今由于科技飞速发展,社会竞争日趋激烈,许多家长望子成龙、望女成凤的心情迫切到了极点。有些经历过“文革”的家长,想把自己曾经失去的东西从孩子身上找回来,这种心态下便产生了攀比心理——希望自己的孩子自幼便是“神童”,超过其他同龄小孩。

I remember a well-known educator once said: Chinese parents from generation to generation as their own private property, as a tool for the Kuanzong Yaozu. These words are very specific. Nowadays, due to the rapid development of science and technology and the increasingly fierce social competition, many parents have become extremely prosperous. Some experienced “Cultural Revolution” parents want to get back what they have lost from their children, this mentality would have compatriots psychology - I hope my child was “prodigy” since childhood, more than other children of the same age .