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在去年底今年初,本刊进行了一次大规模的读者调查。在统计这些数据的时候,有这样一个现象引起了我们的注意:在我们收到的问卷中,母亲填写的占74%,父亲填写的仅占26%。这样一个极其不平衡的数据说明了什么?难道我们的新爸爸们依然固守着“男主外、女主内”的老观念?难道爸爸们在不能孕育、不能哺乳这两大事实面前,就真的束手无策,把自己隔绝于养儿育女之外?当然也有另一种可能,就是许多新爸爸们已经默默地走上了养育孩子的第一线,在用他们独有的方式影响着孩子的成长,并在探寻着一条成为好爸爸的新路。孩子们在期待着!
At the end of last year earlier this year, we conducted a large-scale readership survey. In collecting these data, it is a phenomenon that caught our attention: in the questionnaires we received, 74% were completed by my mother and only 26% by my father. Is such an extremely unbalanced data illustrating what? Do our new dads still cling to the old notion of “male leader and female leader”? Do not fathers, in the face of the two major facts that can not be nurtured or unable to breast-feed, Is really helpless, to cut off themselves outside raising children? Of course, there is another possibility that many new dads who have quietly embarked on raising their children in the first line, with their unique way of affecting The child grows and is exploring a new path to be good father. Children are looking forward to!