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一直以来,有这样一个现象值得注意:一些家长对孩子的教育,以奖惩为手段。具体表现在,如果孩子考试得分高,就奖;反之,则惩。殊不知,奖惩不是教育的好方法。或许有人说:棍棒之下出孝子,那么,奖惩之下肯定出成绩。乍一听,这句话似乎也有点道理,可细一想,根本不是那么回事。棍棒和奖惩,孝子与成绩,风马牛不相及。古代的孝子有哪一个是打出来的?那些考取功名的读书人,又有哪一个是奖惩出来的?李白、杜甫、白居易,唐宋八大家……哪一个是
There has always been a phenomenon worth noting: Some parents educate their children by means of rewards and punishments. Specific performance, if the child scored high scores, the prize; the other hand, the punishment. As everyone knows, reward and punishment is not a good way of education. Some people may say: under the stick out of a dutiful son, then, under the rewards and punishments certainly result. At first glance, this sentence seems a bit truth, can think about it, is not the case. Sticks and rewards and punishments, filial sons and grades, irrelevant. Which of the ancient filial piety is hit out? Those who study fame scholar, which one is reward and punishment out? Li Bai, Du Fu, Bai, Tang and Song dynasties ... Which one is