女人的友谊是颗玻璃球

• 作 者: 渝儿
• 出 处: 生活与健康
• 发表日期: 2001年04期
• 关键词: 易碎品 晚归 我的女儿 天都 口方 我们俩 已婚女 声地 献身精神 社会动物

很长一段时间,我觉得女性的友谊是阶段性的东西,那种经多年风吹雨打,仍持久弥坚的状况绝对属于个案,并不带有普遍性。 大多数的女性友情是一种不太昂贵的易碎品,说得直观些,就是一颗玻璃球。女人在婚前,大抵都是需要伙伴的。在做学生的时候,有好朋友就意味着有人会在图书馆里替你占座儿;在严厉的老教授点名儿时替逃课去看画展的你应一声到,或者是帮着因为和男孩子约会而晚归的你,向管宿舍的老太太圆

For a long time, I think the friendship between women is a staged thing. After years of wind and rain, the situation that is still enduring is definitely a case and not universal. Most women’s friendship is a less expensive fragile, intuitively speaking, is a glass ball. Women before marriage, probably need partners. Being a good student means having someone in the library occupying your seat; when you’re hitting an absurd class by a harsh, veteran professor to see an exhibition, you should hear it as you do with a boy Dating back to you late, to the old lady tube hostel round