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我是离异后带着独生女儿生活的母亲,在我和女儿共同生活的12年中,我注意研究和发現离异家庭子女的特点,以自己的孩子为主要对象,进行有针对性的教育。我感到,对于离异家庭子女的教育从以下几个方面着手比较有效: 1.以家长的爱心引导孩子热爱生活、积极向上。不幸的家庭通过离婚可以使夫妻关系解除,双方得到一定程度的解脱。但是作为双方的未成年子女,却不能因此而失去亲人的抚养教育。我感到家庭离异对孩子最大的伤害,就是家庭成员减少,得到的爱不全面,来自外界的歧视和压力增加,生活寂寞清贫。记得女儿小时常说的一句话是:“妈妈,咱娘俩儿多可怜
In the 12 years after my daughter and I lived together, I paid attention to studying and discovering the characteristics of children of divorced families and educating them with their own children as the main target. I feel that education for children of divorced families is more effective in the following aspects: 1. Guide children to love life and make positive progress with their parents’ love. Unfortunate family divorce can make the relationship between husband and wife be lifted, the two sides get a certain degree of relief. However, as both minor children, they can not therefore lose the support and education of their loved ones. I feel that the greatest harm to the children caused by the divorce of a family is the reduction of family members, the lack of full love, the increase of discrimination and pressure from the outside world, and the loneliness and poverty of life. I remember her daughter often said the following sentence: ”Mom, my mother and two children are pitiful