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衢州一读者来电问:“我的女儿被父母宠惯了,在别人看来很普通的一件事,在她那里就成了天大的事。为此,她经常觉得自己受了天大的委屈,今天不想理这个同学,明天不想和那个人讲话。这么小的孩子和同学之间能有多大的矛盾呀?但我应该怎样帮助她,让她学会和同学交往,学会化解矛盾,不要总是斤斤计较那些鸡毛蒜皮的小事呢?”主持:孩子生活在班级这个大集体中,面对几十个性格气质乃至家庭生活背景各不同的孩子,孩子需要适应集体生活,需要处理好和同学的关系,不能一切都按照自己的意志为转移。但是怎样引导教育孩子呢?我们看看杭州市嘉绿苑小学的家长是怎样说的吧。
Quzhou readers asked: “My daughter was used to their parents, others seem to be very common in one thing, it became a big thing in her .To this end, she often felt that she was Tianda Of grievances, today do not want to ignore the classmate, do not want to talk to that person tomorrow.What such a small child and classmates can have much contradiction between you? But how should I help her, let her learn and classmates, learn to resolve conflicts, not Always care about those trivial things? ”Host: children living in the class of this large group, the face of dozens of temperament and family life, even the background of different children, children need to adapt to collective life, need to be handled well and classmates Relationship, not everything in accordance with their own will for the transfer. But how do we guide the education of children? Let’s take a look at the parents of Hangzhou Jiarongyuan Primary School.