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目前,在独生子女家庭里,家长们的望子成龙的心情非常迫切。可是他们的行动却往往与目的背道而驰,娇生惯养的“小皇帝”是成不了任何气候的。 在这方面,平心而论,有些东西我们是应该向西方国家学习的,卡特的女儿在旅馆打临时工,里根的儿子失业后到处奔波找职业,最后在遥远的马戏团里找到一个清洁工的职位,钢铁大王卡内基把他的全部遗产都捐献给慈善事业,不留分文给子女,让他们自己打天下,在锻炼中培养自己的领导才能。 美国的一个在28年内研究过2万多名青少年的研究中心的研究人员认为:做父母的不外乎三种人——放任派、专制派和权威派。 孩子们都喜欢权威派的作风——可以享受自由,但有
At present, in the one-child families, the hope of parents is very urgent. However, their actions often run counter to their aims. The “petty emperors” who are spoiled by the spoils can not afford any climate. In this respect, to be fair, there are some things that we should learn from Western countries. Carter’s daughters are hiring temporary workers in hotels and Reagan’s son joins a job after losing their job. Finally, he finds a cleaner job in a remote circus, Carnegie King Carnegie donated all his heritage to charity, leaving little text to his children, allowing them to tap into the world and develop their leadership skills. Researchers at a U.S. research center that has studied more than 20,000 adolescents in 28 years think that there are no more than three types of parents - the laissez faire, the authoritarian and the authoritarian. Children love the style of authority - free, but there is