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进入青春期的少男少女时常会做“白日梦”,借助幻想来满足自己的某些愿望,并在幻想或梦境中达到现实生活中自己受阻的目标。比如有的少女因自己的容貌不够美丽而自卑,她们常常会在课堂上幻想着自己遇见了理想中的白马王子风度翩翩地来邀请她去游玩,还幻想着周围的少女们都带着惊奇的目光望着自己和自己身边的翩翩少年,羡慕不已。这是典型的“灰姑娘”型的幻想。 再比如,当有的男孩感到处处受大同学的欺负而受委屈时,也往往沉溺于“孙悟空”式的白日梦中,想象着自己有七十二变的本领,打败了过去欺侮自己的对手,并在想象中获得一种情感上的满足。
Boys and girls entering adolescence often do “daydreams,” using fantasy to satisfy some of their aspirations and to achieve their own goals of obstruction in real life in fantasy or dream. For example, some girls because of their appearance is not beautiful enough and inferiority, they often in the classroom fantasize that they met the ideal Prince charming prince charming to invite her to play, but also fantasy around the girls are surprised Looking at myself and his side of the juvenile, envy. This is a typical “Cinderella” type of fantasy. For another example, when some boys feel aggrieved by the bullying students, they often indulge in “Sun Wukong” daydreaming, imagining that they have the ability to change seventy-two and defeat their past to bully themselves Opponents, and in the imagination to obtain an emotional satisfaction.