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时下的男人大多不愿当众承认自己有男子气,因为它几乎代表男权思想。你看所有的相亲节目,会做饭、好脾气、能忍气吞声的男孩子,都很受欢迎。可是,尽管如此,男子气,却还是一个生活中躲避不开的问题。故意显摆的,也许并不真实;有意压抑的,或许全无诚意。到底有没有男子气,还得进了婚姻、过起了日子,才能看得一清二楚。想当初,他们恋爱时,他也是个温柔、有礼、懂事的小伙子,过分的话从不说,让她不高兴的事从不做。虽然她的父母觉得他并不是心目中理想的女婿:出身贫寒,其父对其母有过家暴,而且,职业也不安全,要经常应
Most men nowadays are unwilling to publicly admit their masculinity because it almost represents the power of men. You see all the blind date programs, cooking, good temper, can swallow the boy, are very popular. However, in spite of this, masculinity is still a problem that can not be avoided in life. It may not be real, it may be repressive, or it may not have sincerity. In the end there is no manhood, have to marry, live the day, we can see clearly. At first, when they were in love, he was also a gentle, polite and sensible young man who never said anything too much and never let her be unhappy. Although her parents felt that he was not the ideal son-in-law: from a poor family background, his father had domestic violence against his mother and that his job was unsafe and he should always