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人们常说:“不打不成才,黄荆棍下出好人。”父母在体罚孩子时,总认为自己在纠正孩子的错误行为,希望能将他们重新引到正道上来。但是,父母得到的只是短期效果,即体罚所希望达到的效果。父母没认识到这是一种自食苦果的行为。儿童行为心理学研究发现,在1～3岁时经常遭受到体罚的孩子,易变得虚伪、冷酷、多事、擅长说谎、有暴力倾向。这些行为在体罚后几个星期或几个月内开始产生。美国新罕布什大学的摩雷·史特劳斯医生曾经领导研
It is often said: “When a child is corporally punished, parents always think they are correcting their child’s wrongdoing in the hope of redirecting them back to the right path.” However, what parents get is only the short-term effect, the desired effect of corporal punishment. Parents did not realize that this is a self-depressing behavior. Child behavioral psychology studies have found that children who are corporally punished at the age of 1 to 3 tend to become hypocritical, cold-blooded, trouble-doing, good at lying and violent. These behaviors begin to occur within a few weeks or months of corporal punishment. Dr. Murray Strauss at the University of New Hampshire was once a leader