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卡耐基在他的极为畅销的《怎样交朋友》一书中,提出了一条重要法则:要尽量记住别人的名字。他认为人们在日常生活中最重视最愿意听到的是自己的名字。能准确地叫出别人的名字,是交朋友的极好途径。随着阅历的增长,我感到事实却不这样简单。一位朋友告诉我,当他对一位刚刚就任副科长的老同学当众直呼其名的时候,人家竟老大不高兴,很不耐烦地涨红了脸,慢吞吞地向他翻了翻眼睛,倒是一位高声叫他“吴科长”的人,使他喜笑颜开,应声而去。我听后沉默了一会,对朋友坦然
In his very popular book, “How to Make Friends,” Carnegie put forward an important rule: try to remember other people’s names. He believes that people in their daily lives most valued most want to hear is their own name. Being able to accurately name someone else is an excellent way to make friends. With the growth of experience, I feel the fact is not so simple. One friend told me that when he publicly called his name to an old classmate who had just assumed the position of chief of deputy section chief, he was bored and impatiently blushing and slowly turning over to him Eyes, it touches on a loud call him “Chief Wu,” so that he smiled, hesitant to go. After listening to me for a moment silent, frank friends