从蹲着和孩子说话想到的

• 作 者: 叶子
• 出 处: 百姓生活
• 发表日期: 2007年08期
• 关键词: 放下架子 教育方式 思想道德建设 轻声细语 人格个性 中国家庭 说服教育 教育效果 差异点

有位老教师,在谈到赴澳见闻时说,澳大利亚的家长们蹲着和孩子说话,给他留下了很深刻的印象。学校的秘书逑蒂有一对可爱的儿女,有一次逑蒂一家邀请老教师共度周末。当他们一同去超市时,逑蒂4岁的儿子因为姐姐先坐进汽车而不高兴。逑蒂在车门口蹲下,两只手握住儿子双手,目光正视着孩子,诚恳地说:“罗艾姆,谁先坐进汽车并不重要,对吗?”

When talking about going to Australia, an old teacher said that Australia’s parents squatted with their children and left a deep impression on him. The school secretary Di Di has a lovely pair of children. Once, the Di Jiayi invited the old teacher to spend the weekends. When they went to the supermarket together, Totti’s 4-year-old son was upset because his sister was in the car first. Totti squatted in the doorway, his two hands holding his son, his eyes on the child, and said sincerely: “Roemer, who does not matter in the car first, is not it?”