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怀孕时,我就听过“勤劳妈妈懒女儿”的说法。当时就想,如果自己做个懒妈,能否培养出勤快的孩子呢。于是,女儿很小时,便有了许多动手的机会。而我也在女儿成长的过程中,享受着做“懒”妈的快乐。其实,做“懒”妈真不容易,要努力做到三“放”。放下不舍——忍得住也就是心中要舍得,能忍得住不出手。就拿穿衣服来说吧。女儿还不满2岁时,每次给她穿衣服我都不让她闲着,要么帮着拉袖子,要么帮着提裤子,这样可以让她有自己穿衣服的意识。大一些了,就告诉她穿衣服的方法。那时正好入夏,晚上洗澡后,我将衣服摆在女儿面前,鼓励道:“今天你自己穿衣服,你可以的。”说完就忙其他事情了。第一次,担心她不愿
When I was pregnant, I heard “hard working mother lazy daughter ” argument. At that time I thought, if I was a lazy mother, can cultivate diligent children do. So, when the daughter is very young, there are many hands-on opportunities. And I am also in the process of growing up daughter, enjoy doing “lazy” mom’s happiness. In fact, to do “lazy ” Mom is not easy, we must strive to achieve three “put ”. Down to give up - to endure is the heart to be willing to live, can not help but hold the hand. Take clothes for example. When she was under 2 years old, every time I dresses her, I do not let her be idle either by helping to pull the sleeves or helping to lift the trousers, so she can have her own sense of dressing. Older, tell her how to dress. Just then into the summer, after a bath at night, I put my clothes in front of the daughter, encouraged: “Today you wear clothes, you can.” "Finish busy with other things. For the first time, worry about her reluctance