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家长关怀异化是家庭教育中常见的问题,不利于孩子的健康成长。“关怀异化”主要表现为关怀盲目化、关怀过度化、关怀片面化和关怀庸俗化。家长在给予关怀的时候,没有站在孩子的立场施予恰如其分的关怀是导致关怀走向异化的根本原因。具体表现为家长对“关怀”的误读、功利性教育价值观的宰制和错误儿童观的制约。要摆脱异化的家长关怀,必须提升家长的关怀能力,矫正功利性的教育思想,树立正确的儿童观。
Parental alienation is a common problem in family education, is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. “Caring for alienation ” mainly manifested in blindness of care, over-care, one-sided care and vulgar care. Parents in giving care, do not stand the child’s position to give appropriate care is the root cause of the caring for alienation. The concrete manifestation is the parental misunderstanding of “care ”, the control of utilitarian educational values and the restriction of mistaken view of children. To get rid of alienated parents ’care, we must enhance parents’ caring ability, rectify utilitarian educational thoughts and establish a correct view of children.