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不可否认,我们承袭了太多传统恶习,短短数年无法尽除,但我们有必要明白自己的缺失或者传统的伤害在哪儿,才有可能一点一滴的改变僵化,改变不思变通的法子,改以柔软如水的方式让孩子的思维能屈能伸、能刚能柔、能拐弯能抹角、能顺水推舟,而不是毫无转折的余地。要使孩子经受住这些挫折的考验,走出低谷,踏上成功之路,一个很重要的方面,就是需要家长培养孩子具备一种刚柔兼备的弹性性格。
It is undeniable that we have inherited too much traditional abuse and can not do everything in a matter of a few short years. However, it is necessary for us to understand where our own deficiencies or traumatic traditions are. Only then can we be able to change the rigidities and change the unsustainable Method, change the soft water as the way the child’s thinking can flex its muscles, just can be soft, able to bend be able to roundabout, can push the boat, rather than there is no turning point. To make children withstand the test of these setbacks, out of the trough, set foot on the road to success, a very important aspect is the need parents to develop children with a rigid and flexible character.