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最近我看到一个故事,很是感慨。有一个女孩非常优秀,研究生毕业,33岁没有结婚。父母为此吃不好睡不好,不停地催她相亲结婚,还对她说:“你不结婚,我们都感觉没面子,你也要为父母想一想。”因为大龄未婚,她从父母的骄傲,变成了父母的耻辱。我一直非常反对父母逼婚。可能是因为经常做婚姻咨询,我比其他人更深刻地体会到:结了婚,并不意味着就能幸福。婚姻幸福需要具备很多因素,比如,两个人心理要够成熟,懂得尊重理解,会处理差异;两个人要有爱的能力,
Recently I saw a story, it is feeling. There is a girl very good, graduate, 33-year-old is not married. Parents do not like to sleep well, kept urging her to marry blindly, but also said to her: “You are not married, we all feel faceless, you have to think about their parents.” "Because unmarried older, Her pride from her parents became a shame. I have been very much opposed to forced marriage by parents. Probably because I often do marriage counseling, I realize more deeply than anyone else that being married does not mean being happy. Marriage needs to have many factors, for example, two people should be mature enough to understand, understand and handle differences; two people have the ability to love,