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今年3岁的小综要上幼儿园了,但他死活不去。由于在祖父母的溺爱中长大,小综一直以“小皇帝”自居。面对不听话、固执的儿子,父母对他的蛮横无理进行了指责。小综有一天突然说出:“爸妈死了才好呢!”专家分析,儿童心理出现问题,除了遗传、生活方式等因素外,家庭教育的缺失越来越占主导位置。家长们走进的一个误区是:只有一个孩子,给他最好的是应该的。这样极易导致孩子过分骄纵,易发脾气、攻击他人。攻击性行为在不同的年龄阶段有不同的表现形式。更多的孩子是采用语言攻击,谩骂、诋毁,故意给对方造成心理伤害。他们口中常说诸如“不喜欢这个”、“不跟你好了”、“烦死了”等。
This year’s three-year-old kindergarten, but he can not live or die. Owing to her growing up in the spoiled grandparents, Little Alchemy has been the “little emperors”. In the face of disobedient, stubborn son, parents accused him of rudeness. One day the small comprehension suddenly said: “” Mom and Dad died! “Expert analysis, children’s psychological problems, in addition to genetic, lifestyle and other factors, the lack of family education more and more dominant position. One misunderstanding that parents have come in is that having only one child and giving him the best is what should be done. This can easily lead to children over arrogance, temper, attack others. Aggressive behavior has different manifestations at different ages. More children are using language attacks, verbal abuse, vilification, deliberately causing psychological harm to each other. They often say such things as ”do not like this “, ”do not tell you “, ”bored to death " and so on.