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俗话说,雁过留声,人过留名。读书人最重虚名,能够看破名的,少之又少。淡泊名利这句话,说起来容易做起来难,我见过的古文字学家,张政烺先生是这样的人,高老师也是这样的人。他们都是非常厚道的人。人有生前之名,也有身后之名。我们和古人打交道,只读其书,不见其人,什么恩怨是非,道德高下,统统烟消云散,距离产生美感。但活人呢,情况却大不一样,人和书都很重要。如果密迩相处,人更重要。你会发现,有些名气很大的人,其实并不可敬可爱;有些非常可敬可爱的人,名气反而不大。有时候,人和学问还正好相反:得之博大,失之油滑;得之谨严,失之苛狭。人好学问好,当然最好,但让我挑一样,我会亳不犹豫地选择前者。因为,谁会乐于和一个缺乏真诚、缺乏宽容,自己不轻松也让别人轻松不起来的人聊天、谈心、讲心里话呢?除非你自己就是个虚头八脑的人。
As the saying goes, wild goose had left the sound, people have named. The most famous fiction scholar, to see the famous, with very few. Indifferent to fame and fortune, it is easy to say it difficult to do, I have seen the ancient literary scholar, Mr. Zhang Zhengyuan is such a person, high teacher is such a person. They are very kind people. A person’s lifetime name, also has the name behind. We have dealings with the ancients, read only their books, no one else, what kind of grudges right and wrong, ethics, all disappear, distance beauty. But living people, the situation is quite different, people and books are very important. If you get along close, people are more important. You will find that some famous people, in fact, are not respectable and lovable; some very respectable and lovely people, not much fame. Sometimes, people and learning are exactly the opposite: they are big and slippery; they are cautious and they do not have the right skills. Of course, it is best to learn well, but let me pick the same. I will not hesitate to choose the former. Because, who would be happy with a lack of sincerity, lack of tolerance, not easy to let others can not easily chat, talk, heartfelt words? Unless you are a brainstorming person.