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儿子上学后,早上起床时总是需要各种催促。催促的过程中,我少不了唠唠叨叨地讲很多道理,比如“要有时间观念”、“做事要专心”等等,那时我很少能意识到,说教只是自己的情绪发泄,而对孩子毫无益处。有一天,多次催促和说教无效后,我又开始气急败坏地威胁。在我百般“努力”下,我们总算没迟到,但这一次我却注意到儿子垂头丧气的背影慢吞吞地消失在教学楼里。我心里突然升起一个巨大的疑问:孩子即将独自面对一天的挑战,那么在这个早晨,我到底应该给他带上什么?是各种道
When my son goes to school, he always needs a variety of reminders when getting up in the morning. Promote the process, I have many say nagging truths, such as “have time ”, “work to concentrate ” and so on, then I rarely realize that preaching is only their own emotions Vent, but no benefit to the child. One day, after repeated intimidations and preaching, I began to feel angrily. Under all my efforts, we finally did not get late, but this time I noticed my son’s depressing back disappearing slowly in the teaching building. My heart suddenly raised a huge question: the child is about to face the challenge of the day alone, then in the end, what should I bring him?