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“好好珍惜孩子10岁前缠着你说话的时光吧,因为当他(或她)迈过10岁的门槛儿,将以缄默来应对你的絮叨……”一位37岁的网友在聊天室里感喟道。的确,当孩子小的时候,芝麻绿豆大的烦恼或喜悦都要追着父母说个没完,几乎没有父母不嫌孩子多话的。然而,当孩子穿上初中校服后,对于父母的问询,他(或她)却只用“嗯”、“啊”、“是”或“不是”来回应,比拍电报还惜字如金。难道孩子真的不再与他人交流了吗?不,也许他一边吃饭还一边拇指翻飞地发短信;也许他一边上厕所还一边煲着“电话粥”……但只要一遇上父母探究的目光,他(或她)立刻掩藏起自己的心事,孤傲得像一座沉默的堡垒。为什么孩子这时有事都瞒着自己的父母,双方之间出现“沟通梗阻”呢?我们先请父母和孩子来各抒己见吧。
“Treasure the child before the age of 10 haunt you talk about it, because when he (or she) crossed the threshold of 10 years old, will be silent to deal with your talk ... ” A 37-year-old netizen Feeling in the chat room. Indeed, when the children are young, sesame mung bean big troubles or joy chasing their parents say endless, almost no parents do not too much children talk. However, when the child is in junior school uniforms, he or she responds to the parents’ inquiries only with “”, “”, “” or “not” Telegraph also cherish words such as gold. Could children really no longer communicate with others yet? No, maybe he was still eating while thumbs up and texting; maybe he was still on the side of the pot with a pot of “porridge” ... ... but as long as a meet parents To explore the eyes, he (or she) immediately hides his mind, alone like a silent fortress. Why do children hide something from their parents at this time, between the two sides appeared “communication obstruction ”? We first ask parents and children to express their opinions.