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君哲是一个成熟的人,他打电话给我,说他饱受情感的折磨,想离婚。我决定和他作一次“理性”的讨论。在讨论该不该离婚之前,我先和他讨论为什么要结婚,原因如下: 1.共有家庭可以获得规模经济:增加生产力、共同收入,支付汽车、楼房等大额消费。 2.肉体和情感方面称为“爱情”的情结。爱情是婚姻存在的冲动,是婚姻的决定因素,新婚夫妇往往认为婚姻是爱情的归宿。通过共有家庭,有情人还可以减少约会与资源转移的成本。
Jun Zhe is a mature man, he called me and said he was emotionally tortured and wanted a divorce. I decided to give him a “rational” discussion. Before discussing whether or not to divorce, let me discuss with him why we should get married for the following reasons: 1. The communal families have access to economies of scale: increased productivity, common income, and large-scale spending on cars and buildings. 2. Physical and emotional aspects called “love” complex. Love is the impulse of the existence of marriage is the determining factor of marriage, newlyweds often think marriage is the destination of love. By sharing the family, lover can also reduce the cost of dating and resource transfer.