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金钱、名誉、地位的差异,人的出身、生理条件,乃至肤色的不同,都可能使人产生自卑。别人是带“长”字的官,出入有车,前呼后应,门庭若市;自己却处在权力金字塔的最底层,是一个受人驱使的卒子;别人的家装修一新,自己的家却是破旧平房;别人穿着时髦,自己一身老土;人家年轻有为,自己衰老多病,老了,不行了……如此等等,在比较中使自己自惭形秽,自卑感便油然而生。人一旦有了自卑感,就会给自己造成一种无形的心理压力,俗话说,“哀莫大于心死”,失去了自信,就必然影响向上的勇气,影响身心的健康。
Money, reputation, differences in status, people’s origin, physical conditions, and even the different skin color, may make people have inferiority. Others are the officers with the word “long”, they have access to the car, the front call should be followed and the door open; they are at the lowest level of the power pyramid, being a pawn driven by others; others’ home renovated and their own home But they are shabby bungalows; others are wearing fashionable, old-fashioned oneself; others are young and promising, their aging sick, old, and die ... ... and so on, to make themselves ashamed in comparison, inferiority will arise spontaneously. Once a person has the feeling of inferiority, he or she will create an invisible psychological pressure to himself. As the saying goes, “no sorrow is greater than death,” and losing confidence will inevitably affect the upward courage and the physical and mental health.