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小笛姐姐的话:青春期的情感教育,一直是我们栏目关注的话题。开学伊始,我们再一次提及这个话题,是缘于我收到的一封没有署名的信。信中叙述的故事里,主人公阿伊的感受十分耐人寻味——“原来不知道什么叫做恋爱,才觉得以前很快乐。而现在男女生之间交往,似乎都有着恋爱的痕迹,或者有着什么目的。”“这种被公认为喜爱不等于爱的游戏就像一场赛跑,失败者得到的就是连做普通朋友都不行的结局。”虽然我不认为故事中的人物是在玩“多角恋爱”的游戏,但我知道,他们每个人都受到了伤害,只是有的已经意识到了,有的还浑然不觉。正巧,我手头有一篇陈老师在开学第一天给他班上的同学谈情感的讲稿,我觉得他讲得非常恳切,如果阿伊或者其他同学有这方面的困惑,建议大家好好读一读。
Xiaodi’s sister’s words: Adolescent emotional education has always been a topic of concern in our section. At the beginning of the school year, we once again mentioned this topic because of an unsigned letter I received. In the story described in the letter, the protagonist Ay’s feelings are intriguing - “I didn’t know what it was called love before I realized that I was happy before. Now, there is a trace of love, or what it has to do with the interaction between boys and girls. ”This kind of game, which is generally considered to be love and not equal to love, is like a race. What the losers get is that they will not even be able to make ordinary friends.“ Although I don’t think the characters in the story are playing ”multi-angle love." The game, but I know that each of them has been harmed, but some have already realized it, and some have not yet realized it. Happily, I had an on hand teacher Chen talking about his emotional speeches to his classmates on the first day of school. I think he was very eager to say that if Ayi or other students are confused about this, I suggest you read it well. .